Ehllo to 2012!

Hi all,

So I hate when I wait so long to write a blog that I have so much that I want to talk about and don't know where to start.

Let's just start by saying that so far 2012 has begun amazingly. I have clear goals in mind and I am more motivated and determined to accomplish them then I ever have been before. I have felt very peaceful and happy recently and I think that only breeds positivity.

With that being said, this year I want to run 2 half marathons, GIVE more (time and money), stick with school, learn to meditate, watch tv no more than 3 days per/wk, cook more, eat healthier and the list goes on... OH! And blog more, duh.

One thing that I've realized lately is that yes, I have been married to the MR for over FIVE years, but I haven't been the most domestic wife and I'm not afraid to admit that I have lacked in the maturity department (at times!). What can I say, I like the jokes! (insert the "am i saying too much" face) However, If I'm ever going to be a Mom and raise a family, I'm going to need to make some changes; like get myself out of bed in the morning and learn how to cook something other than a bowl of cereal...my fav! And I would do ANYTHING in the world for the MR so I guess I better get my ass in the kitchen more, eh?? (insert winky face)

Now that I've brought the classiness to my post I should probably sign off (winky face)

I hope you have your goals written down and get to 'em, 'cause it's 2012 BABY!!!!!!!!! (insert game face)

Nice chat!

CW

Ps: notice anything creepy about my collage? Anything? Other than the entire collage? Bueller?

5 YEARS!

The MR and I are celebrating our 5th wedding anniversary this weekend. We rented a boat this morning and are keeping it until tomorrow. We love the "boat" life and have dreams of someday owning one and possibly living aboard.

Of course today has been filled with lots of love, sweet surprises and romance. We sailed for several hours then anchored to have snacks and sun time. Snacks: cheese, crackers, chips, fresh strawberries w/ whipped cream and champagne to toast our 5th. Don't worry, we are documenting every moment...obviously.

After dinner we set sail again to finally pull into our home port. We've been listening to sweet tunes, playing cards, eating/drinking rootbeer floats, telling stories and learning even more about each other. I always learn something new from the MR about his life, and I fall even more in love with him with every story.

A moment came when I thought I was sooo clever and made up a card game where we would flip a card and talk about what ever thoughts spiraled from the suit or number. At first I got a sarcastic answer and eye-roll from the MR but then guess who was sharing allll of his life stories by the 3rd card?? Yep, you know it.

All jokes aside, I am truly thankful for my life, family, marriage, friends and job...especially when I'm out on the water, peacefully reflecting on life and loving every minute of it.

I believe in being who you are deep down inside no matter what anyone thinks of you. I know sometimes it's hard but, rid the negativity in your life. It's all nonsense and not worth your energy. I get so tired of all the judgement and what certain people or groups think is right or wrong. All that matters is that you love, laugh, smile, follow your heart, think for yourself, be active and think of others often.

Until next time...

Yours truly,
CW

Are We Crazy?!

The MR and I are at a crossroad in our life. He is getting out of the Navy, we're planning a move across the country, looking to buy a house, starting school, starting new jobs and leaving behind everything we have here. Are we crazy?! Could we possibly put anymore of a strain on ourselves and our marriage? The MR is going from having everything planned out by the Navy for the past six years to having to create a life outside of the military. This transition is going to be very difficult for the both of us. We'll have to think about paying rent/mortgage, utilities, health insurance and all the other things we haven't had to consider in the Military.

At this point, all we can do is be grateful we're going through this together, communicate to the point where we have nothing left to say, drink wine until we're delirious, make up random songs (sometimes crass), run around the house like two teenagers and laugh until our bellies ache. We are the prime example of the saying "you never know where life will take you." The truth is, this is nerveracking and scary but it's NOT life or death. We have options. We have our love, people that we love, people who love us, and people who believe in us. We're prepared to work extremely hard and know that nothing comes easy. Among all the decision making and stress, this is really an exciting time in our lives! No matter the outcome, we have each other and our happiness and that's what's important!

What do you think? Can you relate? Have any advice?

CW

Life Lesson

I was sitting at the front desk of my office and in walked a cute married couple. They were approximately 90yrs of age, holding hands and smiling. I greeted them and then started up a conversation. I don't quite remember the whole conversation but I do remember one specific part; The wife looked at me and said "At this age, our fun is sitting on the ground, naked, laughing at each other."

At that moment, I realized that they truly enjoy life and they don't take themselves seriously. They had so much spunk and I loved that about them! I hope my husband and I have that same attitude when we grow old together. Well, we kinda do now :)

Talk Nerdy To Me

I found myself giving a girlfriend advice the other day and not too long after our conversation, I realized that I may not be following my own advice. She and her husband have been married nearly a year. She came to me for some marriage advice and I was happy to help. One piece of advice I gave her was "Your husband doesn't necessarily need to hear all that you have to say. I think communication is important but he doesn't need to know about the guy that your BFF is dating or every detail about the dress you've been dying to buy."
I can be kind of an anxious person so I tend to talk to fill the silence...when, silence is golden, right? ;) Well, every now and then I put myself in my husband's shoes for a split second, yes only a SPLIT second and I realize that I could very well be driving him insane with all my woman chatter. This usually happens when I'm talking to him about something he has no interest in and then wonder why he's not listening to me. Men couldn't be anymore different than women. So, I confronted him about the matter and sure enough, all those "split second" moments I've been having are correct, he was just too sweet to say anything. When I asked him if I sometimes tell him things he's not interested in, he said yes but he also wanted me to know that he still wants me to be me and continue to talk openly. However, from now on I am going to try to filter the topics I choose to talk to him about. And, it goes both ways. I don't always want to hear about his nerd gadgets or how the RAM connects to the motherboard. Well, I do find the nerd talk to be sexy at times.

That's the scoop for now!

CW-