Are We Crazy?!

The MR and I are at a crossroad in our life. He is getting out of the Navy, we're planning a move across the country, looking to buy a house, starting school, starting new jobs and leaving behind everything we have here. Are we crazy?! Could we possibly put anymore of a strain on ourselves and our marriage? The MR is going from having everything planned out by the Navy for the past six years to having to create a life outside of the military. This transition is going to be very difficult for the both of us. We'll have to think about paying rent/mortgage, utilities, health insurance and all the other things we haven't had to consider in the Military.

At this point, all we can do is be grateful we're going through this together, communicate to the point where we have nothing left to say, drink wine until we're delirious, make up random songs (sometimes crass), run around the house like two teenagers and laugh until our bellies ache. We are the prime example of the saying "you never know where life will take you." The truth is, this is nerveracking and scary but it's NOT life or death. We have options. We have our love, people that we love, people who love us, and people who believe in us. We're prepared to work extremely hard and know that nothing comes easy. Among all the decision making and stress, this is really an exciting time in our lives! No matter the outcome, we have each other and our happiness and that's what's important!

What do you think? Can you relate? Have any advice?

CW

Planning Our Third Anniversary

The MR and I have been discussing our third anniversary plans for many weeks now. We decided to do something adventurous together rather than a gift exchange. We're very close to making a final decision, one of them being paragliding.

We woke up this morning and decided to drive up to the gliding spot on the cliffs, have lunch and just watch the paragliders. I suggested the idea of going to watch them because I wanted to see what it was all about before I did the jumping myself. I am somewhat afraid of heights but am determined to conquer my fears.

When we got there the first thing I noticed was the view, it was breathtaking not to mention the excitment of the paragliders running off the cliffs. After watching some paragliding we decided to have lunch. We both had delicious sandwiches from the little cafe. Once we finished eating we went off to explore the cliffs which were beautiful.

Even though I think paragliding might be a tad scary, I assured the MR that I would still go and boy was he excited to hear that. The instructor might have to drag me off that cliff which should be quite easy for him since I plan to sedate myself. All the elements around us today seemed to flow into each other so well, from the sky and sun to the mountainside to the shore line...flawless! It was perfectly warm with a slight breeze, what a beautiful day to be outside!

I hope you'll get a glimpse of what we experienced today through my photographs. I'll let you know when we go for the jump or in my case the drag-fall.

Life Reflection

The MR and I didn't have much planned for the weekend which was fine with me since we always seem to have plans. I awoke a little unsettled this morning and i'm assuming it was the result of a conversation the MR and I had last night. We are still adjusting to him being home from his 5 month deployment. Thank goodness we communicate well because otherwise this transition might not be so easy. Along with some of the more serious things we discussed we also discussed the possibility of driving up the coast to visit family but when I really focused on what I needed, I realized that was personal time. I contemplated staying home while he went up north to go spear fishing with my brother but I wasn't too into the idea. I'm the type of person that doesn't require a whole lot of time alone but when I start to crave it, I need to make sure I allot time to do so.

I finally made up my mind (the MR was happy about that) so we drove about an hour to my brother's house. My brother and the MR decided they wanted to snorkel and spear fish. We got in our suits (swim that is) then took the trolley to the beach. Free public transportation = Genius idea! They got all their snorkel gear on while I set up shop on a cluster of rocks much like the birthing rocks in Hawaii which are really neat. I felt more like a mermaid boss than a woman on a birthing rock in the Forrest . While they were out in the water I planned to spend some time in my head without interruption. However, I made friends with the lifeguard and spent most of my time people watching and exploring the beach. It was such a beautiful day...well most days here are beautiful. Unfortunately we forgot our camera :*(

Before I knew it, the boys were back on shore. That time to myself was much needed even though there were distractions. It was peaceful which is just what the doctor ordered. Aside from my alone time, it was so nice to see my brother. We had a lot of laughs and catching up to do. {My brother introduced my husband and I - They've been really good friends since junior high so they get along really well} I usually get to see one of my other brothers, sister and my Mom but it didn't work out this time. Hopefully we'll see them all next weekend.

Before I head to bed I would like to say, pay attention to what you really want and do it. Life can be difficult but remember not to take it too seriously...enjoy it all you can!

Good night ;-)

Life Lesson

I was sitting at the front desk of my office and in walked a cute married couple. They were approximately 90yrs of age, holding hands and smiling. I greeted them and then started up a conversation. I don't quite remember the whole conversation but I do remember one specific part; The wife looked at me and said "At this age, our fun is sitting on the ground, naked, laughing at each other."

At that moment, I realized that they truly enjoy life and they don't take themselves seriously. They had so much spunk and I loved that about them! I hope my husband and I have that same attitude when we grow old together. Well, we kinda do now :)

All About The S'mores!

There's nothing better than lying in bed with my husband when I should be at work. Luckily I work for wonderful people who are very kind to me.

I got off work at one o'clock today when I normally get off at five o'clock. There's something so exciting about being off work when everyone else is still working. It doesn't happen too often but it feels very liberating when it does. I couldn't wait to get home to be with my love. We had a very nice nap, of course I couldn't sleep much, but it was relaxing.

After our nap we decided to coordinate a bonfire with a few of our friends and everyone was to bring specific items. To be honest, my main concern were the s'mores. I wasn't even really concerned if we had wood for our fire >:-) I wanted those damn s'mores! We could have cooked them in the microwave, I didn't care. Of course, the guys were more interested in having enough alcohol. You know, the key things men need to have fun; fire, alcohol, food and a lot of rambunctiousness. We finally had our supplies and were headed to the bonfire. We were at a stop light next to this lady who we thought was listening to "Scrubs" by TLC. I'm still not sure if she was but we started singing it ourselves not realizing we were getting so carried away. About 3/4 of the way through the song, rapping, harmonizing and doing solo performances in the Nissan Frontier, it hit us. We stopped our performance, looked at each other and I said "were we really just singing "scrubs"?" We laughed hysterically!

The bonfire was fun. I got my s'mores :) No one really understood why I like my marshmallows burnt, but what is it to them?! We shared some good stories and when the guys started talking about their nerd gadgets or work, us ladies made sure they knew how boring it was.

I'm so happy it's the weekend! We're going to try and cram as many fun and exciting things into our schedule as possible.

For me, life is about smiling, love and laughter. Life is being yourself, creating yourself and loving yourself. It starts with you! Who cares if others think you're weird. I love being at home with my husband because there is no holding back. I am 100% me; goofy, un-ladylike (at times), immature, emotional and he still thinks I'm beautiful, so he says. Life is too short to sweat the small stuff. Enjoy every moment!

Have a wonderful weekend and do something fun that you wouldn't normally do. Step outside your regular routine - You may enjoy it!

Quote: "When someone shows you who they are, believe them." - Maya Angelou

Cereal Writer-